Strap-On

Strap-on?

Could I? Would I?

I was exploring online and found several references to strap-ons this morning. (Yep, that is the kind of thing I read before coffee apparently. Why do you ask?)

Maybe it's fate? Maybe it's meant to be? Maybe I should explore it and see where it takes me?

One of the things I found started with this quote. Read it and see what you think?

"My boyfriend’s butt is beautiful. It’s pretty. It’s plump. It fits in the palm of my hand. I can’t keep my hands off it, and simply touching it turns me on. I’ve spanked it, kissed it, rubbed it, grabbed it, bit it — and now I want to stick something in it. A strap-on dildo to be exact. I want to bend that boy over, face down, bum up, and do him in the most dirty of ways. I want to make his prostate gland giddy with anal afternoon delight."

Sounds naughty, and delightfully sexy doesn't it?

But umm... I just don't know if it's me.

Sticking a finger, or a plug in someone's ass is one thing, but to fuck him? That seems totally different to me.

It seems to be about power.

I can imagine the mechanics of it, me on top, opening him, penetrating, quieting him. Soothing or not. Slowing for a bit, persisting, harder, faster. However I want.

Yeah, power.

And power, in my world, doesn't flow that way.

I want to clarify and say that sex, even penetrative sex, isn't always all about power. Sometimes it's tender, sweet, loving. Sometimes it's not about power at all.

But somehow to me, fucking someone with that strap-on seems to be about power. Don't you think so?

Anyway, I found a link for a beginner strap-on kit. Comes with two different sized dildos so you can start with a smaller one.

Molly and Mick write this morning about strap-ons and their need to purchase a new one. And yes their strap on does look a bit shop worn, but what a sexy photo of Molly wearing it. M and M use it when they switch. And I think for them it's always (almost always?) associated with power, her power over him. I think it's often used in conjunction with a crop to remind him that she's the boss.

And let me say too, that I think he likes it. Not just that he likes her being the boss, but he likes the strap-on play and being the recipient of it. He likes it in his ass and enjoys that interaction. All good right?


Much of my understanding of strap-ons and how they work has come from them. Though I've done a little more research (yes that is what I call it when I cruise trashy sites!)

And I think that leaves me feeling like I don't want to drive. Do I? Okay maybe I'd try it, but I'm a try anything once kind of girl. But I,m sure I wouldn't like it. Would I?

But I wouldn't mind being on the bottom in some naughty strap-on play. Now, all I need to do is find a girl with a strap-on, right?