What's my favourite BDSM activity or concept?
The concept is power I think. It's exciting, it just gets me hot. Sometimes, when he orders, demands, whatever, it's like there are live wires between us. There's a flare of heat, and it's the most exciting thing ever. He says, and I do. But I love when he says it. It takes me/Us from 0 to 60 in seconds. And it's both of us, caught up in a sudden sweep of power, because it's rare that it would affect one of us and not the other.
My favourite activity? How about cuddling afterward? Umm, actually, while I love that, wouldn't miss the during for the world. My favourite thing is probably slow sexual pain, where he alternates sex with pain, layering them on, a little of one, a little of the other, at his discretion. For us, it's usually nipple pain. It's controlled, steady, few sudden movements, just a slow build. Is there a name for this? We refer to it as the pain/pleasure cocktail; he mixes it as he chooses and I drink what he mixes.
There, question month, short and sweet....?
Actually it was fun. If you have more, I'd answer. Probably.