Better

Well I guess things must be better because I'm back, right?

I don't post much when things aren't good between The Man and I. For soooo many reasons, not least among them that if I post something that he hates, it just makes us worse.

And for anyone who wondered, I did get in trouble for closing the blog, not to you, but to him. So I had to write about a million lines saying I wouldn't close my blog to him.

And then... we still weren't better so I opened it again, but still didn't post.

And now we are better but....Jeez the first post after a layoff is hard to write.

So this is kind of a cheat. But I've loved a couple of posts y'all have written in the past couple of days.

This by Monkey on cyber relationships. This is so good. Go and read it. This is so close to what I feel, that the touch isn't real but the feelings are!

And this and this by Aisha on being (or maybe just worrying about being)  too needy, too dependent. They both spoke loudly to me this week.

Maybe I'll write about it, or maybe I won't. I'm honestly not sure. But I do guess I'll write something.  

-sin