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Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Humiliation Examined

Why do people think they don't like humiliation when they do?

I get that not everyone has exactly the same kink, so not everyone wants to live in the dog's cage or be called a fat pig or be filmed licking an asshole. But...

There are so many forms of humiliation.

And I read them here and want to call you on them. Yeah, I have some in mind. But I won't I guess.

That would just be mean. I dunno. I'm kind of on a tear today I guess. 

My point? Some of it's really hot. And it doesn't make you a freak if it turns you on, to give or to receive it. It's ... power. Right?

And just for the record, the idea of the cage turns me on. Though honestly, I have no idea whether it would be good for real. The others... umm not so much.

Anyone want to confess to humiliating turn ons here? If so, please spice up my blog. If you want to sneak out and come back anonymously, that works too... 

-sin

8 comments:

  1. ok i will go first lol

    i love to be pissed on and especially then left on the bathroom floor covered in it for a while and on occassion have drunk it, it tastes foul but being made to do it is hot.

    Being caged is hot, i tend to see it as a place of sanctuary, its comforting to be put in the cage rather than i see it as being humiliating.

    umm i have others as we both like it but im more for private humiliation than anything in public.

    tori x

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  2. Ahhh Sin, I, too, examined this when someone commented "what on earth could you find humiliating by wearing pink panties" See here http://cliveskink.blogspot.co.uk/2011/02/bring-on-blushes.html
    It all depends on where you come from. In my case, as a conservative 'gentleman' I can be humiliated by the daftest things and find almost all of them turn me on :)

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  3. My lady has taken away all my briefs and boxers and now am forced to wear panties 24/7. I am also made to sit when i need to pee. At anytime I pee in a public restroom I must pull slacks and panties down around my ankles so should anyone in the next booth look over they will see my pink or red lace panties.
    pete

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  4. Sin,

    I do find it a turn on. Once, I was locked in heavy chains and placed in a cell on display for others to watch. I had to write why I belonged in the cell on a blackboard.

    When I completed the task, I was spanked for the reasons I wrote on the board.

    Joey,

    PS My latest blog post shows two cages in an elite dungeon. My next post will show a few more examples.

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  5. Oh, where to start.......

    The cage, yes the cage is a big turn on for me.

    Collar and leash and only being able to move when lead that does it to me too.

    Being given the signal to discreetly kneel in public.

    The list goes on and on.

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  6. Our kind of humiliation is meant to lead to humility. "Humiliation (also called stultification) is the abasement of pride, which creates mortification or leads to a state of being humbled or reduced to lowliness or submission."

    Most people fear/disdain humiliation because they see it as embarrassment, debasement and tearing not for harm.

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  7. There are too may for me to list...but here's one:

    Corner time - in my ruffled panties, nose pressed to the wall, hands behind my back, while my Wife is on the phone with Her boyfriend.

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  8. oh boy.

    Humiliation plays a bit more in our play time now than it used to. Adding in a new Dom to play with is a big part of that...Master will remind me of the things I did with Sir P to embarrass/humiliate me...but this is a private humiliation, not public. I'm equally sure if He wanted me to make it more public (Like my HNT pic a few weeks ago)...He'd say do it, and i would, and it would embarrass me...and turn me on, too.

    I'd like to be pissed on...i find it both repulsive and hot.

    I enjoyed being facefucked, hands tied behind my back, unable to stop him...this has happened with Master, although with Sir P my hands were free...i didn't have control of that, either.

    It amuses Him to find me soaking wet after this sort of thing. Doms!

    nilla

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