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Wednesday, August 24, 2016

Declutter Blog?

So... is this going to be my new declutter blog? Ummm, probably not.

But I guess it's not going to be what it was.

I had a Dom, and now I don't.

And I need to figure out what to do about that. Whether I want a new one. Where to find one. What kind of relationship I'm looking for.

It's tiring just thinking about it.

The other one, the old one, just happened. I didn't really have to think about it. It just kind of grew that way.

Damn, life is complicated sometimes.

I wish I could just wave my wand and have everything be peachy.

This whole transition period, whatever it is I'm transitioning to... this sucks. I hate uncertainty.

But... the decluttering is going well.

8 comments:

  1. I have always found that when transitioning from something old to something new...decluttering is always an important step. Hang in there....hugs abby

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    1. It'S funny, I've always done that too. I always did it with major school projects and I always do it now with work. I don't think I had really made that connection til now. Thanks.

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  2. I wonder if someone has a "lend lease" Dom out there who can tide you over?

    Mick

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  3. Hi Sin- on further reflection, maybe you should compose a blog describing what sort of Dom you are looking for/ In other words a "want ad" for the remote Dom of your dreams. That might draw some interest, and I would be happy to cross-promote it on my blog.

    Mick

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    1. oh good idea Mick! Okay, let me think...

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  4. So much power in decluttering!!
    And power to be found in writing out what we want...and what we don't.

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    1. Isn't it amazing how true that is?

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  5. I don't care for the uncertainty of transition either. It's nerve wracking.

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